Grief as Connection with Guest John Richards (KEXP)
In this episode of Welcome to Your B-Side, Dr. Amy Lindsey sits down with John Richards, longtime KEXP DJ, podcaster, bar owner, and mental health advocate, to explore how grief has shaped his life, his show, and his community.
After losing his father, and then his mother, John turned pain into purpose by processing his grief live on air and inviting listeners to do the same. He went on to create The Mom Show, an annual broadcast dedicated to grief and remembrance that became one of KEXP’s most listened-to programs.
The overwhelming response inspired John and his wife, Dr. Amy Lindsey, to expand that mission through Death & Music, a live community event where artists and audiences come together to explore loss, love, and healing through the lens of music.
What began as a personal act of vulnerability has grown into an ongoing invitation for others to grieve, remember, and find meaning in shared experience. Together, Amy and John discuss what it means to grieve openly, how music becomes a language of loss and love, and why community is essential for healing.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- How vulnerability and storytelling can transform grief into collective healing
- The origins of The Mom Show and its evolution
- Why music is one of the most powerful tools for emotional processing
- The purpose behind Death and Music and the concept of “The Second Funeral”
- How grief often changes our perspective on life, spirituality, and connection
- 02:53 – A Life-Changing Loss: Losing His Father
- 05:44 – Processing Grief Live On-Air
- 12:35 – The Evolution of The Mom Show
- 22:38 – The Birth of “The Second Funeral”
- 26:49 – What Death Taught Him About Living Fully
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